A Mantle of Love

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There’s a story in the Bible about Noah I think we should consider. No, not the one about the flood. This one involves Noah getting drunk and passing out naked. Scandalous I know, especially considering in Genesis chapter 8 the Bible states Noah was a man who found favor in the eyes of the Lord. It’s not really so much Noah I want to consider, it’s his sons. You see Noah had three and in the particular story of Noah and his nakedness, two of the three extended a mantle of love over their father and the third…well, he ended up cursed slave.

 

A Mantle of Love

 

A Mantle of Love

 

So the story goes, after Noah and his family get off the ark, and offer praise and sacrifice to God, Noah plants a vineyard. He drinks some of his wine and becomes drunk, so drunk he passes out in his tent–naked as a jaybird as my grandma would say. Guess what? Noah was not a man who habitually got drunk and passed out naked. He was not known for his indecency or even poor decisions. He was known as a man who loved and obeyed God.  He made a mistake.  He didn’t even commit an intentional sin according to the Church Father’s…a venial at the very most.

 

So Noah is lying there, exposed and totally vulnerable and a family member–one of his sons, Ham–happens upon him in his mistake. Instead of protecting his father, instead of covering his father–literally and figuratively–Ham tells his father’s mistake to the next person he sees. Remember this is right after the flood so there’s not a lot of people around. The next person or people he sees are his two brothers, Shem and Japheth. And can you just imagine how that story got told? Doesn’t matter really how much joking around or back slapping there was on the part of the Ham. The fact is, he found his father in an awkward position and then dishonored his father by exploiting his mistake. He didn’t extend charity or compassion for or over his father…and he ended up being cursed for it.

 

Shem and Japheth on the other hand…they don’t really care what happened. As far as the scriptures tell, they don’t discuss the problem, ask around to see what the story is or wonder what happened or try to figure out what this all means. They do what any good children would and should do, they extend grace in the form of a cloak to cover their father. Again, we’re not talking about a man known for drunkenness or living a wild and free life. We’re talking about a good man who made a public mistake.

 

Noah’s two boys extended a mantle of love over their father to protect him and others. They protected their father out of love and reverence and were blessed because of it. You know the scriptures say they even walked backwards to cover their father. Wow. That act of walking backwards to cover Noah shows the utmost love and respect for their father, placed over them by God.  They also protected themselves.  Nobody of moral integrity wants to see or share the mistakes of others.

 

 

Seems we need some of that double coverage these days huh? Let’s not believe everything we read. Let’s not share the misinterpreted words of another. Let’s extend grace and mercy–a mantle of love–over those who may say the wrong the thing or say the right thing in the wrong circumstance or context. As our family says in our Nightly Examen, “Did we assume the best and forgive the worst?”

 

Every idle word

 

Telemarketer Conviction and Holy Spirit Kapow!

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I have been blessed with a last name that is frequently mispronounced.  As a matter of fact, even though I have known Chris since the fifth grade, I mispronounced his last name until we started dating and he politely corrected me.  And the blessing of an easily mispronounced last name…I can identify a telemarketer in mere seconds!

 

I would begin this story by saying, “It was one of those mornings…”  But as I thought to write that I stopped.  “What, one of those mornings where God woke me up to another day filled to the brim and overflowing with His new mercies?  One of those mornings where my children and I woke up in a warm house with food in our pantry?  Yeah, one of those mornings.

 

Back to my telemarketer conviction and Holy Spirit Kapow…I had just pulled out of my drive when my phone rang.  Although it said Wisconsin and I don’t think I know anyone in Wisconsin, I answered it.  The man on the other end asked to speak to Chris.  Not unusual since my number is Chris’ old number and this number was connected to a fence business Chris owned–9 years ago–but still.  “May I ask who is calling,” I responded.  “Yeah sure,” the man replied casually and friendly, “This is Caleb.”

 

I’ve never heard Chris mention a Caleb, so I thought this might be a fence call–yes, we do still get them occasionally.  So I inquired again, because normally on the second inquiry the caller will say they were needing an estimate for some fence work.  “I’m sorry, who were you trying to reach?”  I asked.  “Chris…” and then a brutal butchering of our last name–left off the entire last syllable type of butchering.

 

“Oh come on dude,”  I replied.  “At least get the last name right or semi close to right if you want to speak to him.  Take us off your call list and don’t call again.”  I think Caleb hung up before I got to the “Don’t call again” part.  “Telemarketers!” I thought as I continued with my day.  But later in the day…

 

As the morning’s incident came to mind later in the day, my indignation turned to conviction.  “Jenny, how is that telemarketer supposed to know how to pronounce your last name?  You couldn’t even pronounce it for the eight years you knew of Chris’ family before he corrected you?  What if this guy, Caleb, was just trying to do his job to support his family?  Maybe telemarketing is a second job–like a pizza delivery guy Dave Ramsey always talks about–trying to pay off a load of debt so he can call Dave and holler, “I’m Debt Free!”  Hardworking guy trying to support his family or international scam artist, why couldn’t you have just politely said, “Please remove us from your call list.  Thank you.”

 

Ouch Holy Spirit Kapow!  Convicted over how I spoke to a telemarketer–Good one.

 

But wait, He wasn’t finished with me, my heart needed another lesson.

 

There was an issue with a child recently that left me disappointed and hurt.  My mood and attitude toward this child reflected my hurt and disappointment.  And then yesterday while waiting at piano lessons, I was reading Matthew 5 and 6 in my journaling Bible.

 

Telemarketer Conviction

 

To me, that meant I was to correct my child for for the behavior in a loving way…and then move on. My mood and attitude were not to change toward the child based on their wrong behavior. And then in Matthew 6

 

The Lord's Prayer

 

I don’t want God to hold a grudge against me because I’ve disappointed Him. I don’t want God to be anything other than pleased to see me, welcoming me with open arms. There is an issue of confessing wrong doing involved. of course. But it’s easier to go to someone and make an apology for a sinful behavior if they are welcoming to you and ready to extend mercy and forgiveness.

 

So let me go back and say, “It was one of those days.” One of those days where my heart needed some firm redirection. One of those days where my attitude was getting “a little big for its britches” as my grandma used to say. One of those days where His new mercies were obviously poured out on me as I spent time with Him in the scriptures. He used that time to teach, correct and train. (2 Timothy 3:16)

 

Everything is Grace

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When I hear the quote from St. Therese, “Everything is Grace,” I think of fat little angels playing harps, cotton ball clouds slowly drifting by and green meadows with no weeds but a perfect scattering of wildflowers with a clear, fresh stream running through it.  But the other day while reading Divine Intimacy: Meditations on the Interior Life for Every Day of the Liturgical Year, I realized my saccharine scene was not only gross, but all wrong.

 

Everything is Grace

 

Everything is Grace St Therese Quote

 

In Divine Intimacy, right after the “Everything is Grace” quote it states, “…everything is the result of His infinite love.” Really? Then why do mommas die and babies suffer and hardworking men get laid off?

 

“If He permits sorrow, interior or exterior trials, personal or public vicissitudes, it is only to draw out of them some greater good. Virtue and goodness are strengthened in time of difficulty.”
–Divine Intimacy

 

 

I’ve mentioned before here at The Littlest Way and on my older blogs, I suffered with my mind. And I shake it off now and say, “Oh but at least…” or “I know others suffer more.” I don’t say that now because I’m not in the deep, deep pit. But it was a suffering; a flat out terrible cross and I don’t ever want to revisit that place or time in my life again. But it was worth it–strangely and said hesitantly.

 

When one of my children come to me struggling with fear or scrupulosity; it makes my neck stiffen and the hairs on my head bristle…and my heart soften. Oh I know, how I know…and along with a mother’s words of comfort, I can give them instruction–first hand knowledge, not something read or heard, but lived.  And I can plant my feet and my prayers as any momma bear would and use similar words of Christ, “Get behind them Satan!”

 

And when one of you reach out and up through a darkness that is so scary and has such a stranglehold on you that even if you got over the trepidation of sharing your inner most fears, you wouldn’t even know what to say or how to say it for fear of how it would be–how you would be, seen. My first reaction is to look away; those memories of that time are deep, but not so deep they cannot be stirred up again. But I don’t look away because I know, how I know…and the courage it took for you to email me–I know that too.  And my heart softens and I pray because sometimes you just can’t pray for yourself down in that place.

 

And the first thing I’m going to tell you…You are courageous! You are so much stronger than this thing that is strangling the very life and light out of you. Do you know why?

 

The very fact that this darkness tries to force you into a silence and you reach out to someone–me or Candace at His Mercy is New or Elizabeth at Heart of My Home–and quietly whisper, “Help.” You are not rolling over and letting this thing win. You are proclaiming–affirming what God wills for you, as Jacques states in his book, Interior Freedom , “Live! I want you to Live! Here is the first and the most fundamental call to us from God.”

 

 

Everything is Grace! That phrase doesn’t mean everything is perfect or easy. It means we can have confidence in God–even when and especially if we don’t feel like it. His love and concern for us is not determined on how much we feel it or don’t feel it. This is why I believe daily affirmations are so important–they are statements of truth and that truth doesn’t change because our feelings do…but that truth can change our feelings.

 

The Importance of Daily Affirmations

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If you would have told me a few years ago I would be regularly writing about daily affirmations, I would have laughed…well, not really, I was in a pretty bad place mentally so I probably would have just mumbled something to change the subject.  If you would have told me before then though, I really would have laughed and probably hollered “Get thee behind me Satan!”  I would have considered daily affirmations New Agey gobbledygook.  Not only are they not gobbledygook, they are Biblically based and I’m going to show you the importance of daily affirmations..again.

 

The Importance of Daily Affirmations

 

Let’s start by reviewing a good working definition for affirmations.  An affirmation is a declaration that something is true. (Daily Affirmations for Self Esteem)  So daily affirmations are daily declarations of the truth.  That sounds pretty important doesn’t?  So important it is attacked…daily.  The truth of who we are, what we have and what we do is attacked from the moment we wake up until we fall asleep.  These attacks come from within and without and constantly try to erode the truth from us and out of us.

 

 

One of the important things to consider with our daily affirmations is that we need to begin our day with the truth. That truth will set the tone for the rest of the day. How do many of us begin the day (with the exception of Angela), “I’m tired…I’m worried about…I’m afraid of…What if…Oh no…Ugh…” How about instead, we begin proclaiming the truth.

 

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See what we did there? We started the day proclaiming the truth, proclaiming Truth. John 17:17 states, “…thy word is truth.” Anything or anyone that comes up against that truth of our day…that comes up against Truth is a liar. Period.

 

So we’ve started our day intentionally–for some of this this is one of the first battles of the day, setting our mind on the truth.  Now what?  We continue what we’ve started…

 

Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. (Colossians 3:2)

 

…take every thought captive to obey Christ… (2 Corinthians 10:5)

 

…love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. (Matthew 22:37)

 

Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? (Isaiah 43:18-19)

 

Daily Affirmations--God's mercies are new every morning.

 

Daily affirmations are not a once and for all, that’s why they are called “daily.”  We need to constantly bring our heart and mind back the truth we started our day with. The lies do not and will not stop and neither should the affirmations. During our day we keep bringing our selves back into the presence of Truth.

And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father, full of grace and truth. (John 1:14)

 

The importance of biblical daily affirmations lies in their source of truth.  These are not some “feel good” quick burst…like an energy drink.  Daily affirmations are a lifestyle, a choice to daily meditate on the truth and goodness from God above.

 

Bible Journaling as Lectio Divina

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A week ago I started writing about Bible journaling.  Today let’s consider Bible Journaling as Lectio Divina.  In Bible Journaling in the New Year I found this definition of lectio divina to share, “Lectio Divina is simply the classical monastic practice of the prayerful reading of the Bible…” It does not treat Scripture as texts to be studied, but as the Living Word.”” (Opening to God: Lectio Divina and Life as Prayer)  So instead of sitting down and reading my Bible as a text to dissect, I read like the author Tim Gray mentions in his book, Praying Scripture for a Change: An Introduction to Lectio Divina; I read the scriptures as “…a personal note addressed to each of us, intended to speak personally to the intimate details of our life.”

 

Bible Journaling as Lectio Divina

 

I loved this example from Tim Gray’s book. “A lover who is separated from the beloved doesn’t let a love letter just sit on the kitchen table unopened for days on end with the ever-growing pile of junk mail, but instead quickly and eagerly opens it upon its arrival, reading and rereading it until the ink is nearly worn off from use. Scripture is a love letter from our Divine Bridegroom, and like the saints, we too should eagerly and often read the Scriptures and hear there the voice of our Beloved speaking to us.”

 

And before all that lovely-dovey stuff makes you feel guilty because you surely don’t feel that way about reading your Bible, did you check out my post the other day, Bible Quotes About God’s Word, where I admitted sometimes reading my Bible seemed like a penance?  Yes, I said that.  In those times though, I ask God for the desire to read His Word and I know He not only hears that prayer, but honors it as well.

 

Bible Journaling as Lectio Divina

 

So how does my new found attempts at Bible journaling work within the confines of lectio divina?  Extremely well!  I sit down and read the text, the assigned reading for the day from our Read the Bible in a Year plan.  As I read it, I read it with an open heart and mind, waiting for a certain passage to stand out to me.  A verse or even just a word that makes me stop and go back to re-read it.  Lectio.

 

As I roll that verse, passage or word around in my mind, I am meditating.  Meditatio.  Tim Gray states, “Christian meditation makes full use of the intellect in an effort to understand God’s Word and to hear God’s voice. Christian meditation is the pursuit of understanding, starting with the fruits of lectio.”  I’m spending this time considering what this verse means to me.  Why did the Holy Spirit bring me to a pause on these words?

 

As I’m meditating, I must keep in mind, all Scripture affirms the teachings of the Church and the teachings of the Church are in agreement with the Scriptures.  If my meditation begins to lead me down a path away from the Church, I have misinterpreted the passage.

 

During our lectio or meditatio, our heart might be stirred by one particular observation.  Stop there.  Don’t just continue on to the next thing.  Take time to go deeper and let the Holy Spirit move your meditatio to the next stage of your journey through lectio divina.
–Praying Scripture for a Change: An Introduction to Lectio Divina

 

Remember when the other day when I encouraged us to not beat ourselves up if we didn’t finish a book on a list in the appointed time. (The Spirit of Perfection) This is one of the reasons why. It is much more fruitful to take time to listen to the Father admonish, teach or affirm us in His Word than to say we marked off Day 9…on Day 9.

 

I’ve decided for this year, I will not get behind in my Bible reading schedule. If I miss Day 10 on January 10th, I’m just going to pick up where I am supposed to be on January 11th. If I have time I can go back, but I decided I’m always going to be right on track day to day. This will eliminate any feelings of being behind…maybe even too far behind that I just give the whole thing up.

 

Next on to prayer–oratio. Prayer is a conversation with God. Speak to Him. You can speak to Him in writing, out loud or in the quiet of your heart, but just start a conversation. And again, how does this ancient practice of lectio divina work well with the seemingly new practice of Bible journaling?

 

The monks who practiced lectio divina carefully recorded in their personal notebooks or journals the key verses that struck them in prayer or liturgy. Like a honeybee collecting nectar, they would gather these precious Scripture passages for further meditation. As the monks did this they came up with a further practical insight, they realized it helped to write down, slowly, these precious Scripture passages that spoke to them, so that they could be etched into their hearts.
–Praying Scripture for a Change: An Introduction to Lectio Divina

 

When I read that passage today in Matthew 5 about being salt and light, those words gave me pause. What does that mean for me and to me, to be salt and light. Instead of slowly writing the phrase, I found a pretty little girl to trace and framed her with the phrase. Either way, I spent time with those words.

 

Bible Journaling as Lectio Divina

 

And finally contemplation–contemplatio. Jacques Philippe states, “Contemplation comes from a deeply personal contact with God, and that is why method is the least useful at the point where prayer is the most personal.” Do you know what that means?! We can’t “do it wrong!” On the other hand, it also means for someone like me, there is not a “do this, then this, next that…” printable.

 

The author Tim Gray defines contemplation as a gaze of love. I need to not worry about what to do and how to do and when…I just need to look with my heart, mind and soul, to God. Worrying about doing it right, will likely hamper my gaze. Those fears and doubts will be like a cloud cover and I will be unable to see God through them.

 

How awesome that this practice of lectio divina will also be a practice of letting go, trusting that God will hear me, love me and respond to me not because of what I am doing but because of Who He is.

 

Resources:
The NRSV Notetaker’s Bible

Bible Marking Kit

Sakura 8-Piece Pigma Micron Assorted Colors 01 Ink Pen Set

 

More posts on how I’m using my journaling Bible:

Bible Journaling in the New Year

Bible Journaling with The Littlest Way

Bible Journaling and Bible Study

Bible Journaling: Favorites Tabs

 

I received the book mentioned free for an honest review.  All opinions are my own.